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This time period of teenage parenting is quite often the cause of a great deal of stress in the family. To avoid the meltdowns, and foster greater understanding between parent and teenager,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], here are a few tips that may prove helpful:
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Article Author: Carl_DiNello
Can parenting a teenager be hard work? You bet! In fact, sometimes it can be more difficult than managing a career. This is a tough responsibility for any married couple, made even more difficult should your home be a single parent home. There is a great deal of pressure involved in helping to shape the life of a child. This pressure can build to a point where you may feel that you just dont know what to do anymore.
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Always Encourage Openness
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Parents must make a determined effort to understand their children’s situation. When parents increase their understanding of just what is going on in their teenagers life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they can then can make an informed decision as to whether or not discipline is necessary, or even warranted. Talk to your teenager, and listen to your teenager. If discipline is in order, be sure that they understand why. That way, a mutual understanding can be made regarding the situation, and even if they do not agree with your actions, they should at least appreciate your efforts to understand them. This open communication regarding a problem will also help them develop a better understanding of you.
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During a child’s teenage years emotions run high, and hormones are raging. Add to that enormous peer pressure, and social group dynamics which sometimes force a teenager to make decisions, and choices they are not yet prepared to make. The desire to “fit in” quite often contradicts the teachings of parents, and many times is the reason a child will get involved in drinking,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], drugs, gang life, and even early pregnancy.
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This parental response is one of the most common mistakes made by parents when dealing with their teenage children. They too quickly forget that times change with each generation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and what was true in their time may no longer be true.
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