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Posted: Mon 18:44, 26 Aug 2013 Post subject: hollister Divorce Hurts Children |
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The problem I have with marriage is how it manifests itself in divorce courts today and how it intensifies into the total destruction of so many families. I am entering my seventh year of a divorce battle so intense that is hard to believe. My struggle appears like a surreal nightmare to myself, my family and friends who have witnessed it. For more than two hundred appearances in court in six different legal actions related to my divorce I have experienced some of the worst of our legal system has to offer. In my seventh year of battle to see my children and stay out of debtors prison I have learned much about life and the divorce courts.
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